How do you know he or she is the right one

This must be too big a question for me to answer. And before I can go on with this post, I must say many times I have wondered why we never get manuals on dating😂 for every particular person we decide to date, or why we never get a whole 5 credit unit course on dating 😂😂😂. Its tough!!

One will say they can feel it from within that someone is their right one. But how many times have we felt so, thought so, planned the future together (its that serious sometimes) , how many kids you will have, introduced them to family, but still woke up one morning and ended the relationship for various reasons. Or how about even those who make it to the altar, say their vows, but still break it off weeks into marriage.

Not to disorganise how you are thinking right now, but I feel and think that there is no particular marker for the one.

I believe we call someone the one basing on our readiness to accept this person for what and who they are, how clumsy they break the glasses at the sink, how they forget to beat major deadlines, how they gamble the last penny in their wallet, how their hairstyles are always off, how you don’t agree with their sense of style, how terrible their cooking is, how their jokes are never funny but you laugh anyways, or even how perfect and accomplished they are in terms of work and life, their complete perfection, their perfect imperfections, and not based mainly on the qualities of the other person.

Like I once debated with a friend about this, I completely agree to the school of thought that love is a DECISION and not a feeling.

am open for discussion, please leave your thoughts in the comments below.